Every month I try to bring Waikato Business News readers some seriously good communications tips you can use in your work life. Once in awhile someone even tells me they put my pontifications into practise. It’s always nice to hear that someone out there is reading and implementing these things – good on you.
But as I sat down to write this last column of the year, I felt like ditching the business talk and doing something a bit lighter – but equally as important.
For many of us, Christmas, New Year’s and the summer holidays are a time to connect – or reconnect – with friends and family. So, how about trying out one of these communications-related activities to build relationships, create memories and have some fun?
Video Nana spinning a good yarn
Nana – or Grandad or Cousin Lou – won’t be around forever. Why not ask them to talk about a favourite memory from their childhood and video it for posterity?
Write down Uncle Joe’s annoying story
You know that story – that one that makes all the cuzzies roll their eyes and leave the room. Well, believe it or not one day you’ll miss it. You swear you won’t forget it because you’ve heard it so many times, but you’d be surprised how fast details fade away. Take a moment to write down family stories – you’ll be glad you did.
Finally print your family pics
You’ve been promising to print your photos since the dawn of the digital camera in the early 2000s. Yet, the latest snaps you have on your walls are the kids’ school photos from 1995. Make 2022 the year!
Find pride of place for handwritten items
This is my personal project for 2022. I have letters, cards, recipes and notes from older relatives that I want to get out of my closet and onto my walls.
Have a digital free dinner
Whether it’s with your friends, kids or wider family, set aside a dinner or two when everyone puts their phones on silent – maybe even locks them away – and talks to one another over a long dinner. You may have to bribe the kids, but it will be worth it.
Play a game that doesn’t involve a device
Board games get people laughing and talking. The energy in the room can rev up the happy endorphins, which helps to build relationship bonds. Dust off your favourite one and give it a go.
Ask questions
Ask the people you are hanging with over the holidays a random question that spark memories and conversations. What was your favourite Christmas gift as a kid? What’s the naughtiest thing you did as a teenager? What would be your ultimate holiday destination and what would you do? If you were in prison, what would you eat for your last meal?
Use social to document family moments
Many of us are used to creating ‘stories’ on Facebook, Instagram or even LinkedIn these days. Try creating a digital ‘story’ to document and save memories of a special day with friends or family.
Tell a good joke
If you are gifted with the special communication talent of joviality and clever timing, deliver a clean joke or two. There’s nothing like a good laugh to bring people together!
Say I love you
It’s the most important message you’ll ever communicate.
